Does this surprise me? Not really.
I was trying to update my blog sidebars today and I saved one thing, then changed another and Blogger didn't like it, so I chose to discard changes, and it didn't like that either. Not having made a backup, I had to start over with something. So this is the current something until I figure out some degree of xml, css, and php or whatever that is. I'm not a programmer, can you tell? I didn't really like my blog layout to start with so maybe my adversion triggered the change?
So with way too much blogger frustration, I lost all semblance of what I had wanted to post. Can't remember a darn thing! Think maybe that 40th birthday zapped a few too many brain cells? Just maybe ;-)
So it's my birthday week and while many people reflect at New Years, I don't usually reflect until my birthday month. This is the one time of the year nostalgia is the trend. I don't have children so my moments with my nieces and nephews are precious to me. I will share with you a few of those moments from my youngest nephews latest visit.
A few of my favorite quotes and moments with Alec while spending the night: (Alec just turned 5 and this picture does not do him any justice - Brad Pitt wishes he was this cute at 5)

When we get to my house and unpack his new play-dough. "Aunt DeeDee you come sit by me and play, ok?" he says. "Ok Alec, what are we going to play?" I answer. "We're going to make PaPa!" he declares. "Hmm, then we might need more play-dough..." I say. "Oh Aunt DeeDee!" he giggles with glee. (PaPa is my dad. Understanding sarcasm at 5 - he rocks!)
While cuddling on the couch just before bed he drifts to a horizontal position next to me. "Aunt DeeDee, I'm going to put my feet on you and you can lay on me ok?" minutes later "Aunt DeeDee, why do you like me so much?" (Because I love you so much I can't even talk??)
While being tucked in for the night one of the dogs jumps up and curls up next to him. "This is a good dog Aunt DeeDee. This dog can stay." as he wraps an arm around her and begins to twirl her fur as his eyes close. (he usually twirls his own hair as he falls asleep)
In the morning after getting up for a few minutes, shouting at me at the top of his lungs while I'm in the bathroom "AUNT DEEDEE I NEED TO TAKE A SHOWER RIGHT NOW!!" and I respond "Hold your horses little man, what's your hurry?" Alec "Oh man! I have to take a shower right now Aunt DeeDee, these dogs just licked me ALL OVER!" (Can you see all of the contortions on my face while I desperately try not to crack up??)
Getting ready to leave for lunch. "Aunt DeeDee are these dogs going to miss me when I go home?" "I'm sure they will Alec but they will be excited to see you next time" I respond. Pause. "Aunt DeeDee, you need to get a kid so your doggies won't cry." (Word for word, I swear! Slay me! I had tears in my eyes imagining the 'kid store' from his point of view where we could just go pick one of those out, you know, to help out the dogs!)
Pausing at the windows in the tunnels of the play center at Burger King to blow me kisses and shout "I love you Aunt DeeDee!!". Then when he gets to the hard climb just before the tunnel to the slide informing me "This is the part where you have to cheer and say "Great job Alec, you are the best!", ok? You say that right here Aunt DeeDee cus I'm the winner, ok?" "Ok Alec, but there isn't anyone else here" I respond. "I made up some friends over there and they get to be the losers" he tells me. "Alec, everything isn't about winning and losing, sometimes it is just playing" I say. "It's ok Aunt DeeDee, it won't hurt their feelings, they aren't real." he says explaining everything.
Packing to go home, I ask Alec "Alec are all of your toys in this bag?" "I don't want to go home right now Aunt DeeDee" he says. "I know Alec. Check this bag to see if all of your clothes are in here" I reply. "Aunt DeeDee, I don't want to go home right now!" he says a bit louder. "I know Alec. Did you get your underwear out of the bathroom?" I say. "Aunt DeeDee are you LISTENING to me??" he yells. "Yes Alec, that is why I am talking to you. But in this case, just wanting something doesn't make anything change" I tell him straightforwardly. He hangs his head and says "Oh maaan!" followed by a big sigh as he trudges off to get his underwear. A few minutes later he says "Aunt DeeDee is Madalynn going to spend the night tonight?" "No Alec, tonight is a school night" I answer. "But she HAS to Aunt DeeDee!" he declares. "Why does she HAVE to Alec?" I ask. "Because then it can be my turn again!" he informs me smiling victoriously at figuring out this solution. (Madalynn is his sister, as you may have guessed)
"Aunt DeeDee, I think you wore me out." he says softly from the backseat on the way home. "Two points for Aunt DeeDee then!" I declare looking over my shoulder but he is already asleep by then.
No one has ever struck me speechless so many times in so few hours! Hug your kids or dream of them - they are truly priceless :-) |